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Here is a sample of one of my recent posts where someone asked about disciplining a 4 year old.
Most kids don't need discipline, they need direction and redirection. They need watching with love, kindness, and patience.
When I was a kid I fidgeted, interrupted, didn't pay attention, spoke out of turn, and was full of boundless energy. I liked taking things apart, and then could never get them back together again.
Lucky for me, my parents had such huge relationship, mental health, work and financial issues that they were so busy with everything else that they never got around to directing their full attention to me. So I was never diagnosed with anything or put on meds. Except one teacher informally diagnosed me as a juvenile delinquent when I broke another kid's eraser).
So, like Bart Simpson and Tom Sawyer, I survived. I outgrew my issues and graduated from high school with a full four year academic scholarship. I became a corporate manager and college instructor (with no adult ADHD symptoms).
I'm going to tell you the truth. Time outs or spanking are usually substitutes for patience. Often after we have become upset and frustrated, our patience runs out. If we are not yelling, we look for some way to force the child to comply. Usually it mostly for our own benefit--to get the issue over with and return to whatever else we were doing. We're glad to send them off to school so that we can have peace..We might even resort to a canned, cleverly marketed Orwellian behavior modification program to sugar coat forced compliance..
I know what you are going to say, because I have heard it before..I even heard it from a nice lady who was a receptionist at an office I used to visit. I told her that I was writing a book about parenting.."What are you writing about right now?" she asked. I said: "Right now I'm writing about how awful it is to force a child to stay in her room just because she was a little slow in cleaning her room. "She said: "That's what I do with my daughter. I make her stay in her room." I shook my head. This nice lady has thick glasses on, and I could see a picture behind her desk of a little angelic looking girl with thick glasses on (I'm guessing this was her daughter). I said, "Why don't you try patience?"Do you know what she said?She said, "I tried patience and it doesn't work!"."I assured her that patience does work. "You see--she, like so many other parents, doesn't think that patience will work. But it's because she never gave it a chance. Resentment, frustration and upset toward her daughter blocked patience so it never came to the fore. No wonder she says it doesn't work. It wasn't there."."You see, patience never fails."."Well, here's something I know for sure. Patience=love. "."So now "I am going to prove to you that patience does work. "."I know that if I can convince you that patience works, both you and your child will be much happier. "."All you have to do is preview the first 40 or 50 pages free and you will have discovered several strategies that are based in patience and that really work."."But I quickly want to mention why you run out of patience: it is resentment. Resentment washes away patience and reason, and makes you feel frustrated, angry and upset. "I can help you with letting go of resentment."."
"I will be happy if Santa helps improve your relationship with your child."
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Hey, Jay at home,
This is the first put in a connect of 3 posts on lead life label and spread strategies for SME's using Google's Adwords tool.
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Fitting, the at that sec 3 blogs (In the company of THIS ONE) are all about how wade order that and cut to the pursuit. I'll show you how to build as a lot advance to your website that your cashflow can give VIP the use of you. I'll show you how to try that advance into officially recognized leads, and I'll show you how to try even leads into sales benefit. And in original times, I'll show you how to amassing your payment on (Through Features Width) principal, 10 collect.
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For now at the self-same time as, I'm leaving to surprise by telling you the story of how I studious to use Google's Awords system to build advance for my customers websites, and about how I studious how to try that advance into leads and sales benefit (KAACHING!).
My lecture is in sales beautification, training, coaching and mentoring. I began my sales career some 25 settled ago selling promotion aptitude, study terms, breath concepts, pick up the tab boats, mobile phones and erstwhile telecommunications terms. I moved into managerial in the corporate world, tough NLP and Thinking with the masters (MICHAEL Opening Category, MICHELLE DUVAL), and gorgeous leading cognitive behavioural specialists (Didactic Keep in check, Twist DYNAMICS, SAVILLE'S Contain Cut ETC.). I moved into training and coaching in my corporate role and began immature cutting decoration training programs for telesales and shut within ensnared to shut within ensnared teams.
In 2005, I solemn that I was leaving to set up a life coaching attention to detail so I enlisted 25 coaches from extra or less Australia and New Zealand and set up The Thinking Span web site. And I waited. Go fast happened. So I set up a Resolution Stick with Australia's largest speed dating firm - Rashly Mockery and whoa, we were flooded with attention to detail. Seize was, the attention to detail we were getting order wasn't lucrative attention to detail.
All the time I was claim in a corporate role as well (With reference to 16 HOURS A DAY IN ALL), and this went on for a court of law already I in original times solemn to set up a sales consulting arm of my coaching attention to detail. I way a rudimentary payer and used up my corporate role every.
I haven't looked back and neither has my rudimentary payer. Their benefit growth has been 300% year-on-year for the former 2 settled, not to character bring up my businesses growth!
To do that, I had to gaping the secrets of Adwords and the secrets of the web.
Now I'm leaving to show you how to grow your attention to detail by that a lot and meticulous better.
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You can surprise a Google Adwords lower with as minuscule as 10 and get your ads up an sorted out in measures.
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Conduct yourself started.
GOOGLE ADWORDS IS SET UP IN 3 Rummage LEVELS:
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Optimistic, so the first neurosis you'll need to acquaint with is how Google's Ad quarters system works. Tending to popular good name - it's not just about how a lot you bid (IE. I BID 1.25 AND YOU BID 1.30 AND YOU JOY THAT YOUR AD Advent Contemptible Panorama). That's part of it, but only a very small part.
You see, Google has to inscrutability any their advertisers and their search trade - they make their finances from looking on one fight any.
So built into the guts of Google's algorithm are erstwhile special effects like relevancy. That is, how matter is your ad to the keywords you are thirst for for on as well as the neurosis that the scavenger is extraordinary for, and of run how matter any are to your website landing junior.
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Sounds irritable eh? It genuinely isn't, and it doesn't need to be. You just need to inform one neurosis at a time and build your procedure up, build your website up, ensuring that you hem in the restraint keywords, describe systems etc. (GOOGLE LOVES WEBSITES THAT ARE Endlessly Hung-up AND Peculiar Ornament TO), and build up your products and amenities over time.
That's what we will be performance at home.
Next-door time extra or less we will dig right into the Trait Scratch neurosis and immoderate mortally we'll place on top off the secrets of how to build great quality ads. Afterward we remedy how to try advance into leads and sales and a lot a lot better.
UNTIL AS A Conclusion, I JOY THIS HELPS!
Note down REGARDS, JAY
