I Married My Best Friend

Many people wonder what the secret is to a lasting marriage. If you ask couples who have made it past five years, they will tell you that friendship is the key. Your spouse is the one person with whom you should share a genuine friendship. When others forsake you, he should be the one person that will never leave you. Let's explore the benefits of having a friendship with your spouse.

When your spouse is your friend, you can unleash the good, the bad and the ugly. Being able to tell your spouse everything not only builds trusts, but also "promotes intimacy". Why tell your girlfriends all of your problems and DEEPEST SECRETS instead of your husband? There is some information he may not care to know about; however, sharing your strength and weaknesses will eliminate loneliness.

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There are aspirations we have in life and having support is helpful. Creating a friendship with your spouse allows him to understand you better each day. When you come home with an idea that may seem insane to others, your spouse will tell you to "go for it." Why? He will trust your instincts and cheer you on.

Finding someone that you can have a long lasting friendship with is the best thing you can do for a marriage. COMPANIONSHIP is great, but having a best friend in your spouse is an amazing experience. You have your confidant, shoulder to lean on, and "road dog" all in one.

By: Nastassja Anderson