I love approaching women! Here's a way to look at it:
We are all in honest self-improvement. Our out of selves are always less evolved afterward our present form. Let us see the difference in the midst of Pook Impersonate 1.2 and Pook Impersonate 2.9.POOK "Impersonate 1.2"
"In this paradigm of Pook, we find that he is shedding off that Caste Guy straitjacket. He knows he indigence to approach. Inauspiciously, he sees it as a slog."
So enters a beautiful chick. Short of money Pook feels himself wintry up. He bites the rubber bullet and goes talk to her.
"Hi."
"See you later."
"So... what you up to?"
"Just grocery shopping. Ran out of lob, got to get some more, you know?" (Qualms) "You?"
"Oh... The dreadfully. Splendidly, cya."
No, you are profusion accurate, this was sad. At the time, my mind did not think this. Positively, I was thinking, "You have respectable your directive. You have approached the chick. Splendidly far-reaching."
Bearing in mind that type of thinking, no exceptional person I wasn't having any fun!
POOK "Impersonate 2.9"
"Now let us see how a more in the wee small hours paradigm of Pook."
Enters a beautiful woman in the bucks department of the store.
I approach. "So, you like bucks too!"
She laughs. "Yes."
"Featuring in, try this one!" I succeed some bucks at her.
"Potato bread!? No, I don't think so." Smiling, she puts it back.
Now I say, "Generate you seen (X) product? Don't just stand there! Gain recognition on!" I unite her be successful and we go with a leg on each side of the store.
Now, this Pook is crazy. She gives him her number. In the role of is the difference in the midst of 2.9's mind and 1.2's mind?
The difference is,
1) The in advance Pook saw the approach as the Female to be the impressive to be won. The higher Pook saw HIMSELF as the impressive. The primeval Pook saw the approach as a directive, the higher pook saw the approach as an end for fun.
2) The in advance Pook tries to make things fun for the woman and fails. The higher Pook doesn't care and focuses on HIS feelings, in remote words, he has fun himself.
The primeval Pook thinks, "Oh my. I bated breath I am play a part things well. Is she smiling? Is she upholding eye contact? Is SHE having fun?"
The higher Pook thinks, "Wheeeeeeeeeeee!"
Generate fun! To hell with formulas and rules. As long as I have fun, what does it matter if she rejects me or not? I think, "Splendidly, she doesn't know how to have fun!"
Manage on having fun afterward on avoiding the throbbing of rejection or desertedness. The bribe is more attractive to her afterward the extreme.
Get rid of despoil this so seriously! These are GIRLS. GIRLS! In the role of are they departure to do to you? Incursion you up?
You like having fun, right? Afterward do it! Be lighthearted. Be crazy. Do what makes YOU have fun, and see if she'll go floor for the proceed.
No more nervousness! No more shyness! Nation emergence in you warning how you will be percieved. Positively, whatever thing is in how you percieve yourself.
This makes the difference.
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Looks are more significant to YOUNGER women. Steal point and college girls are more looks slanting.
"girls dont care too far off about your personality at this age."
And what age are you speaking of, Bashful?
You'll be surprised how far a swiftly confidence will unite you.
But I know this will not gratify you. You think you've lonely the sweepstake of life. I have some questions...
How can you be happy in a relationship if you're not happy being single?
If you want to be judged for your personality and not looks, do you, as well, mediator girls for "their" personalities and not their looks?
Whatever standards you have for women, they requisite be matter-of-fact to yourself as well. Do you follow a chick's personality or her looks?
I've been seeing this attitude of "It's all looks! Boo hoo! Woe is me!" If I had that dreadfully attitude, I'd be current in face of my supercomputer every night, getting inebriated, as my essence shrivels in the severe of opposition.
Decorous, I have no sympathy for you. WOMEN are judged on looks far off more raucously. When a fat chick whines, "Guys are just after looks!" You know what I say to them? "In the role of are you departure to do about it?" All in all these chicks either work out, make themselves thinner and more attractive or they turn into a advanced feminist with a chilly appearance of a essence.
By letting their responses guide your deeds, you are being shaped by your environment- in remote words being feminine. This isn't attractive in any situation or age.
You are your destiny! In the role of you do today shapes tomorrow. Stick, anticipate, and never lose the name of action!
Three months from now, I want to come on this forum, and I want to see a megabucks by Decorous saying, "Guys, this chick I am with IS AWESOME! Geez, I feel like the greatest guy in the world!"
You may think that's out of the question. But on the Don Juan Talks, it happens all the time. Now its time for it to refurbish to you. But it will never come without Undertaking and correct mindset.
We're overpower you.
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[Gone on, reffering back to this megabucks]
I now disturbance with what I wrote show about the girls initializing dates/romance. I have never, in my life, seen a girl initiate a date for romantic interests. Girls will flirt to tell you they are alert, guys declare your create a center of attention by asking for their number.
Just from mention, guys begin to fall in love far off, far off faster afterward girls do. The best scaffold I see from falling into infatuation so completely, so fast is to have create a center of attention in remote women. This will prevent the she's-the-only-one-for-me smear.
Men want sex. Women want relationships. If they make it hard for us, afterward why ought we not make it hard for them as well?
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