3 Archetypes of Modern Seducers.
I have a foolproof technique to help you adapt that impression throughout the process - and that's what I'm going to teach you in this week's email.
Most guys only project one character when they are trying to pick up a girl. For extroverted guys it will be a fun, sociable character. For most men, labouring under the misapprehension that being "nice" is their best chance of getting laid, the character will be Mr Comfort - interesting, but not especially fun or sexual. Other guys will give off a strong sexual vibe. Each will get some success, but nowhere near the level they could expect if they were able to switch between the characters as the situation demanded. If you want to be really good with girls, you need to learn to deploy each of the characters at the right time. Start out with...
"1. MR SOCIABLE "
This is the guy you should be as you approach. He has excellent energy levels, he's animated and he makes a positive first impression. He knows how to make a group of people comfortable. He's also the kind of guy who is great value for the first few minutes but, after that, finds it hard to make a connection with a person because he is just too high energy. You need to use this character for the first few minutes of a seduction until you have entered a comfortable conversation with your target. Then it's time to switch into...
"2. MR COMFORT "
After Mr Social has won you a place in the group and a conversation with your target, you'll need to bring out Mr Comfort. He's interested and interesting. He listens most of the time and he doesn't talk obsessively about himself. He tries to understand women, find common interests and build rapport. You'll want to keep Mr Comfort on the scene until you have found common interests with the girl and begun to make a connection. Mr Comfort will have begun to outstay his welcome at that point; he isn't very seductive and so he is awkward when he goes in for the kiss. For that, you'll need...
"3. THE SEDUCER "
The Seducer takes the good work of Mr Sociable and Mr Comfort and seals the deal. He's very sexual. When he looks at a woman she knows that he wants her; he speaks more slowly, with a deeper voice, he touches her in increasingly sexual ways, he holds her hand when he talks and holds intense eye contact. The Seducer emerges smoothly from Mr Comfort as you find out more about the woman and become more attracted. If he is there from the start it will look as if you are only interested in her because of her looks.
There we have it: the three characters of a seduction. You should keep them in mind all the time while you are in the seduction process and switch between them as it develops. Of course, all I've done here is set them out as templates. If you have any questions about the characters, drop me a line at advice@puatraining.com and I'll get back to you. And have a word with me about my new eBook. It's called Natural Game, and it will give you everything you need to know to become unstoppable when it comes to women. I've been working on it for a while and I'm been really chuffed by some of the amazing reviews it has been getting. There are a couple of special offers for the book at the moment but you'll have to move fast - they are selling really well and the price is going to be pushed up a bit in the next couple of weeks.
Until next time,
The Gambler:
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