First and foremost, you need to be appropriately dressed at all times depending on the occasion. Make sure you are properly shaved, cologne is not offensive and you need to be relaxed and confident. Those are the attributes that works on women. No woman wants a slob or a man who can't even start a conversation because he is not confident enough.
AT THE GYM: This is one of the most popular places that is literally crawling with women. You know women are very conscious about their looks and their weights so they tend to visit the gym a lot. More so, they love coming together in groups to keep each other company and have a bit of girl-time. When you notice a lady you admire, the next step is how to get close to her and start a conversation. You can start with giving her tips on whatever exercise she is doing, compliment her body or lucky enough, if you find her having problems with a particular machine, you could swoop in like a knight in shining armor and offer some assistance. You can also offer to hold her when she is doing her cardio or something else. The advantage of this place is that you both are registered members of the gym so you are bound to meet often. What an excellent opportunity for you guys to get to know each other while having fun in maybe yoga classes or aerobics. Also since it's a casual meeting, there will be no pressure and conversations can easily start with fitness topics.
AT THE BAR: This is also a good idea because most ladies sitting alone at the bar is an indication that she is single and is probably looking to hook up with some guys. But this can be tricky, you need to be very careful in your approach so you don't end up making her seem like a hooker. You can start with offering to buy her a drink, then compliment her and you are good to go. Women tend to loosen up when they have had a couple of drinks so it won't be difficult for the both of you to have some real good fun.
AT THE CLUB: You should also try the clubs because it is usually filled with women who are there to unwind and have fun. You could start by asking to dance with her. This is very helpful because dancing will douse any tension between the 2 of you, help you guys to get to know each other better and also a little bit of flirting. Do not try to grope or or try anything disrespectful because that will put her off. After sometime, you both can go outside to cool off and get to know each other better.
ONLINE: Yes, you might have a smirk on your face because of all the online dating stories you have heard but there are still some real ones out there. Some couples can attest to the fact that they met their partners online. With the advent and popularity of social networking sites and mobile internet, the fact is that most people now spend most of their time online. You can easily start with been online buddies, then when you have gotten to know each other better and when you both feel comfortable with each other, you can then get to meet each other. The first meeting will not be awkward because you both are already familiar with each other. The most important thing about this type of meeting is honesty. Do not oversell yourself and make sure you send real pictures of yourself. Otherwise, when you eventually get to meet and it is discovered that you were not sincere, the trust would have been broken and that will be the end of that relationship before it has even started
These places are the best places for meeting women. Other places include the library, the mall, the park etc. The key is to dress right, be confident, smile, polite and fun to be with. I hope this tips help you as you go out there to meet that special woman.
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